Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Sometimes The Heart Sees What Is Invisible To The Eye

I'm not sure how my post may have come off yesterday but I was worried that I made my boyfriend sound like a complete a-hole. And he is. Sometimes.

Oh no wait, that's me. No him, no me...um, ah....Okay, we both have our moments. I unfortunately have many more than I'd care to admit lately.

I'm a handful right now. Maybe even two.

But you know what? He still loves me. The happy B. The sad B. The grumpy B. And the a-hole B.

And I love him right back.

I'm struggling with just about everything right now and our relationship is far from perfect. But my guy is caring and compassionate. Loving and dedicated. Smart and funny. Patient and kind and a million other things.

He leaves no question whatsoever about his commitment to me and our relationship. And for that I am grateful.

Just thought you should know. :)

3 comments:

  1. Hey, nobody's perfect! We have bad days (or sometimes seasons), and so do they. And if your relationship can survive the hard times, then it's quite possible it's more than capable of going the distance. :) Keep your chin up!

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  2. We all have those boyfriend moments ;) I snap, he snaps, I'm always right, he's always wrong. Haha! He's lucky to have such a sweet girlfriend. You tell him I said that!

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  3. Hey b, Liz is right. If a relationship can survive the hard times, it's a stronger relationship in the end. So many couples try to sweep the bad stuff under the rug, but eventually it comes up. Best to deal with it now. My husband and I had a rough road for awhile, but we prevailed and he's my best friend, as well as, my husband. I wish I could take away your pain, and everyone else's. I just read the comments from the last post and there is so much grief. I feel for all of you and I do hope life gets better for everyone. I know, from experience, that there aren't words to help. Just know there are a lot of caring blogger thoughts and prayers for all of you.

    Cindy

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